While sorting through my mother, Grace Smuin Laemmlen’s papers, I found these 2 pages of notes about her mother, Ruby. Ruby was born 6 January 1898 and she died on 19 February 1959, a few weeks after I was born. She and her husband, Franklin, lived in San Gabriel, Los Angeles County, California. From all I know about my Grandmother, she was a lovely lady.
THINGS I LEARNED FROM MY MOTHER (RUBY SMUIN)
Always sweep the outside clean before guests arrive.
Be ready to serve guests a drink. Say “would you like lemonade or grape juice?” (Not just “would you like a drink?” Make it “fancy,” with a mint leaf or twist of lemon or cherry.
Always have plenty of food! Serve hot things HOT. Serve cold things COLD.
Use cloth napkins for holidays or special parties.
Have fresh flowers (from own garden).
Fresh towels in the bathroom (“company ones”).
Table set and beautiful before guests arrive. Appropriate centerpiece, place cards (name cards), homemade.
Have homemade bread or rolls in the oven when guests arrive (house should smell wonderful).
Be dressed and ready for company–be relaxed.
Have time to be with your guests.
Nuts and candies available.
Special treats for young children.
Have something to send home with guests (part of dinner or dessert).
Use best dinner wear.
Canning
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