Arthur Rudolf Laemmlen Memorial
November 23, 2019 – Selma, CA Ward
Paul Laemmlen’s Funeral Talk
Thanks for attending
There are many people to thank who have stepped in and helped with my dad over the last few weeks:
▪ Kris and her boys and my brother Eric, and all who cared for dad in his final weeks
▪ All of the visitors who came to see my dad over the last few weeks. (He was counting that there were at one point up to 50)
▪ Bishop McNaughton and the Selma Ward for their arrangements
▪ The Relief Society for their kind service
▪ The nurses and Hospice providers for all they have done to make my dad comfortable in hislast weeks
Paul’s family memories of dad
Growing up as young kids in the Art and Grace Laemmlen home was full of good memories. My mom was a third-grade teacher and my dad farmed the then 30-acre farm.
My brother and sister and I attended kindergarten through 3rd grade at the same country schoolhouse that my dad and his three brothers attended when they were young, a generation earlier. At school we would meet up with our cousins, Ruth and Mark, the Henry Laemmlen kids. We could walk 1/2 mile along the ditch-bank, past orchards and vineyards without passing a single house to get to that school.
We would come home and find my dad in his work jeans, red wing high top boots, his JC Penney gray work shirt and his hard-shell safari hat. In those days I never saw him use gloves much (they were for city-slicker lightweights) and he was as strong as an ox. He routinely smashed Black Widow spiders with his thumb!
He would often come in from tractor work and his front teeth were brown from either grinning out there or from breathing dust.
My dad was a do-it-yourself, design build expert. Built much of his own farm equipment (Sprayers, discs, spring-tooth, fruit-packing equipment and he even tried to build his own lawn mower).
He built a huge duplex – for dogs! – for our two German Shepherds – the dogs didn’t use it much so he got the idea to hoist it up into the palm tree 20 feet off the ground and make a tree house out of it – A tree house for bird dogs!
He fixed things himself – he made parts instead of buying a new item. Sometimes his repairs didn’t last as long as the new part… (I have already fixed two toilets yesterday and have a door to fix tonight!)
My parents taught us good, solid Christian principles.
My dad didn’t tolerate waste, laziness or dishonesty. If us kids started slacking, he would say “Get the lead out”, or “Look alive”. Living on a farm was no vacation. My dad taught us how to work.
The young men and women in our church do 18 month or 2-year missionary service, bringing the message of Jesus Christ to the world. Many 19-20-year-olds come home and we hear the old line: “it was the hardest two years of my life”. For me, getting off that farm to do a different kind of work was almost like a 2-year vacation! -It WAS work, but it was the Lord’s work.
We took very few vacations; They were always after harvest – Sequoia Lake, Carmel at Mrs. Wolff’s cabin, Death Valley. Those are the only real vacations I can remember.
Working together and spending time together as a family allowed my parents to know us so well that they could trust us kids to make good choices on our own. In my case they allowed me to do things not many parents would approve – mostly with my High School pal, Ken Charters:
▪ Dropping us off with loaded backpacks in the pouring rain
▪ Leaving us on the banks of the Kings River on a wood raft we built to embark on a three-day float trip.
▪ Dropping us off at Florence Lake to hike into the John Muir Wilderness and picking us up in a designated location 18 days and 125 miles later.
My parents didn’t micro-manage us. “They taught us correct principles and let us govern ourselves”.
We will miss his corny jokes like “It’s cold today but it’s going to be hot tamale!” – OR – the difference between an almond and an amond. (The almond is when it’s on the tree and it becomes an amond when it gets shaken to the ground and gets the “L” knocked out of it”. Dad would tell you the joke then he would look at you with that big grin, hoping you would laugh…
Underneath that tough exterior, there was a soft side of my dad. He was always interested in what we were doing and wanted to help us and teach us.
One time I was shredding grass along an avenue and didn’t see the concrete irrigation valves in the tall grass. I drove along, shredding it down not noticing I was breaking off every one of them. My dad found out and asked; “did you know you shredded off those valves on that back avenue?”
He didn’t blow up or cuss me out, he just said “come on, we’re going to learn how to repair cement valves”
He taught us about serving others by example. He spent many, many hours away from his own personal pursuits to help and lift others, whether they be fellow church members, family, friends or strangers. (with too many examples to mention here)
If my dad were listening right now (and he probably is) he would be saying to me: “You really know how to make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear”
Dad’s spiritual side
A part of my dad’s life many of you are familiar with, but maybe some of you aren’t, is his spiritual side.
When we lose a family member, the veil between heaven and earth sometimes becomes thin. Our thoughts turn to God and heaven and we wonder what comes next. Earlier in his married life, my dad wondered these same things.
Art Laemmlen was a seeker of truth. When he first heard the message of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ he was touched by the Holy Spirit and knew there was something to it. He learned that it was a church structured after the same organization as the original Church of Jesus Christ, with prophets and apostles. After hearing the message, he asked these missionaries from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints to explain it all over again, because the first time he heard the message, it rang true to him – almost like something he had heard before and it was now making sense. The Holy Spirit confirmed to him that it was the true.
When my dad discovered the truth about something, or was convinced about something, as many of you know, he was not afraid to defend it or speak his mind about it. He spent the rest of his life studying, serving, teaching and ministering to others, faithful to his convictions, but he quickly learned, as Boyd K. Packer said “If you are looking for a religion where very little is required, this is not the one”.
My dad learned that this religion was not one where he could rest easy. There is a lot to do. He quietly accepted leadership positions which he continued to serve in his whole life.
He learned from great examples and early church leaders in Reedley:
Carlos Beckstead (First branch in 1947)
George Leavitt Sr.
and many others.
My dad loved serving in the temple. He took temple service seriously and spent many hours there, helping many others by fulfilling the mission of Elijah, as mentioned in the last two verses of Malachi the Old Testament.
Being treated poorly by some in the community because he joined a different church did not deter him – he knew from the scriptures that that came with the territory. He knew what he knew and would not waver from it, and was faithful to the end.
He was a giver. He gave of his time and of his means – Paid balance off for building the Reedley ward building with Buck Buchanan
He taught his three children the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They have followed suit and have done missionary service, sharing the gospel message in Germany, Spain, South Africa, Washington state and currently my sister Ann and her husband, John are serving in Abidjan, Ivory Coast in Africa.
So, where is my dad now?
Our kind Heavenly Father has provided a wonderful Plan of Happiness for his children.
In mortality, the words DEATH and HAPPINESS don’t seem to fit in the same sentence, but in the eternal sense, they’re essential to one another. Mortality is only a temporary time for us. Life did not begin with birth – nor does it end with death.
Before we were born on this earth, we lived as spirits with our Heavenly Father. In that spirit world, we anxiously anticipated the possibility of coming to earth to receive a physical body. When we were born, our spirits entered that physical body that had a limit set to it, as if a clock were set, and a time given, therefore all living things on earth, move toward death.
We knew and desired the risks of this earthly life which would allow us to exercise agency and accountability, but we were not left alone; we were given parents to teach us, messengers to instruct us, commandments to guide us, scriptures to prepare us and covenants to protect us.
Passing from earth life to our Heavenly home requires passing through death. As with all life on earth, we were born to die and we must die to live. Mortality, temporary as it is, is terminated by death. After we die, we go to the first station of post-mortal life called PARADISE. This is the place where we rest, free of the aches and pains and sorrows of mortality. This is where Art is now.
It has been said that there is nothing as “permanent as death” but this is not so. The grip of physical death is temporary. It began with the fall of Adam, and ended with the atonement of Jesus Christ.
The waiting period in Paradise is temporary too – it ends with the resurrection, where our bodies will be restored to their proper and perfect frame. “All of our losses would be made up to us in the resurrection”. Isn’t that a wonderful blessing?
Our resurrection will not be an end, but a new beginning. It will prepare us for judgment by the Lord himself who said:
“As I have been lifted up by men, even so should men be lifted up by the Father, to stand before me, to be judged of their works.” [3 Nephi 27:14]
After the judgment comes one of our greatest blessings – the possibility of Eternal Life – with our Father in Heaven. His Celestial realm is available to all who prepare for it.
So how can we qualify for that great gift?
The scriptures tell us:
“Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope and a love of God and of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.” [2 Nephi 31: 20]
I testify of the truthfulness of our Heavenly Father’s Plan of Happiness, that it is real and that He is the author of it.
Our hearts are tender today as we mourn the passing of Arthur Rudolf Laemmlen, my father. He lived true to his convictions and faithful to the end.
Mourning is one of the deepest expressions of pure love. It is a natural response in complete accord with divine commandment as taught by Jesus who said:
“Thou shalt live together in love, insomuch that thou shalt weep for the
loss of them that die” [D&C 42:45]
When we pass on, we are able to reunite with ancestors and loved ones who have gone before. A few months ago, my sister Ann was able to ask dad who he was looking forward to seeing again on the other side. He said he would like to see his dad. They are probably catching up right now.
We won’t fully appreciate joyful reunions later without tearful separations now.
The message of comfort and hope for us this day,is that this life is not the end. The expectation of seeing our loved ones once again gives us great happiness.
Let us remember the reality of this wonderful Plan of Happiness provided by our loving Father in Heaven and the anticipation of joy that it brings to our future.
I am grateful for the comfort this doctrine brings, and I reaffirm to you that I know that it is true.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.